Science, literature and math, all amazing topics that you learn in school and in recent
years we've introduced sex-ed to the equation.
Alright, so you take the penis and you take the vagina and you smash them together and
you get babies.
Any questions?
- Kid, I've been divorced four times.
How thewould I know?
Here's the problem, most teachers, they don't want to talk about love because they don't
feel like they have any wisdom to pass on to children.
So we stay away from the topic.
Here are five relationship lessons that I wish that I was taught in school.
And don't worry, even if you're 50, it's not too late to learn.
Keep watching.
Hey there, Adam Lodolce from SexyConfidence.com where I help the 21st Century woman create
a love life that she absolutely freaking loves.
And you know what?
We're gonna just jump right into this one.
Lesson number five is that, if you love and respect yourself first, a healthy relationship
will naturally come next.
Don't rely on finding someone else to love you, rely on yourself to always love yourself
unconditionally.
I really believe that love should never really complete you.
It should supplement your already amazing life.
I think a lot of younger people and older people, quite frankly, need to learn that
losing yourself in a relationship becoming a we instead of a me, can feel like this ultimate
expression of love, it's something that we see in Disney movies and something that we're
taught about this perfect idea of love, but it's not always a sign of a happily committed
couple.
And sometimes that level of intensity signals an unhealthy form of attachment.
Lesson number four, talk to strangers.
Adults tell us not to talk to strangers out of fear of what might happen.
But I think that strangers aren't necessarily the problem.
Lack of social skills are the problem.
If you don't get comfortable meeting new people as a younger person, then as you get older,
it doesn't get any easier.
Get out there, experience new people.
Be open in talking to people who have a totally different view point than yours.
People who might have different opinions than you have and people of different backgrounds.
This is going to give you those instincts as you get older to know who to trust and
who not to trust.
When it comes to love, quite frankly, the more you people meet, the more you might just
be surprised as to the type of people you may end up falling for.
Lesson number three, is that it's easy to get sucked into a bad relationship, and it's
hard asto get out of it.
We're always taught when we're younger to follow our heart, follow our emotions.
And when you fall in love, just go for it.
But rarely do we ever talk about that heart-wrenching pain that ensues when a relationship just
doesn't work out.
The pain, the confusion, the difficulty involved in getting out of the relationship.
And I'm convinced that there are just millions of people right now living in shitty relationships
just because they're afraid to break up.
I really believe that people need to be taught that breakups aren't necessarily bad.
Avoiding breakups are bad.
Lesson number two, don't marry someone until you've lived with them for at least a year.
Look, it's the 21st century and I do not believe that you should go from dating to marriage
without at least living with someone for at least a year.
Once you move in with someone people change for the good and the bad.
And when you live with them, at least you can get a feel for whether or not it's a really
good fit.
And I know some people aren't gonna like this advice.
But you know what I don't like?
The statistics about divorce.
I believe that if you just had that chance to get a feel for whether or not someone's
really a fit by living with them, you're gonna be much less likely to get divorced, later
on.
And lesson number one is that, relationships are formed in real life, not by texting, online
dating or tinder.
Now, I can't tell you how many people ask me dating questions about a person that they
met online, who they haven't yet met in real life.
And it's insane.
People who have had these online relationships going for three to five, six months, years
and beyond and people think it's a real relationship.
My advice is if you haven't met someone, if you haven't seen them, if you haven't touched
them, they do not exist in the real world.
Let me ask you.
Do you wish you were taught these lessons in school growing up?
Leave a comment right there below.
And if you agree with the lessons in this video, please share it because I know a lot
of people need to hear it.
Also, if you enjoyed this video make sure you click on that link right there or up there
or anywhere on this page and head on over to sexyconfidence.com.
We have a ton of amazing resources that are gonna help you through every single stage
of dating, relationships and finding love.
And finally, if you enjoyed the video, please give it a like on YouTube and also don't forget
to subscribe on YouTube right down there below for more videos just like this every single
Thursday.
Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak to you, you sexy lady, next Thursday.
Bye-bye.
No comments:
Post a Comment