We studied all the time
We didn't even have boyfriends!
Hi guys, this is Lusiana from Lusilin...
wow, apparently there is a lot of differences between high schools in the US vs. in Indonesia
I had to break down this topic into multiple videos
In last week's video,
we talked about the differences between high schools in the US and in Indonesia in terms of
the structure of the school system and structure of the payments
If you guys have not seen that video,
I will put the link up there so you guys can go check it out!
In this video, we will be discussing
the social life
of high schools students
and the social cliques
of high school students in the US vs. in Indonesia
How different do you think it is? Keep on watching!
When I was in junior high and high school,
there were the smart kids
the smart kids were definitely the teachers' pets
and they were definitely the popular kids
and then there were the bad students
bad students,
and then there were the average/"normal" kids
Which one were you?
Me? haha...
I was an average/ "normal" student
yes, normal student
There were also the kids who were below average
you know, below average...
So here in the US, it's really based on the social life...(as opposed to their school performance)
Back then in my high school,
there were popular kids who were smart, average and below average
But, they were popular because, at least in my school, because they had rich parents
So they often threw parties at their houses
Some of the popular kids also became popular by association
So for example, if you were popular, maybe because your parents were rich, I would be popular too because we're close friends.
That's how it is in high schools here (well, at least mine)
There were also popular kids who only looked like they came from rich families
when in reality their families weren't rich
but they wore brands that were "in" at the time
Back then (in my high school), Abercrombie & Fitch was one of the "in" brands
So all the popular kids wore Abercrombie & Fitch
So it's brand-based
Also, the popular kids who were girls wore a lot of makeup to school
For the popular boys, in my high school, some of them were also school athletes
So, like in the movies...
The football player...yes...
The football players were the most popular guys, then basketball players were the second most popular guys, and then the soccer players were probably the next level
As for the popular girls, some of them were also school athletes, usually volleyball players (and basketball players too)
Us who studied all the time....
basically, my group...
like my friends, we all were in advanced classes
So for example, when we were Juniors (Grade 11), we took the Math class that the Seniors (Grade 12) was taking
So that was our own group
We weren't considered popular because we were always studying...so we were considered nerds
And in the cafeteria...if you've seen the movie Mean Girls,
In the cafeteria, the students were sitting in their own cliques
(in my high school) it was just like that
There were also the "Drama Geeks" because they were all in the school's Drama club
Some of them did well in school, some didn't, but they were all in the school's Drama Club
so that was its own clique
There were also the "Skaterboy" kids
They were usually also the troublemakers
And also the popular kids, because they liked to party, they were known to be the ones drinking alcohol
So, here in the US, the social cliques did not depend on how well we did in school
So, my school was an all-girl school
and it was a Catholic school
so because we were all girls...
our uniforms were all the same
Because it was a Catholic school, we had to wear high socks that went up to our calves
and we had to wear black shoes
You can tell the popular kids apart (from the other kids) based on their handbags, how they wore their makeup
and also their hair...some of them already started dying their hair brown or some other natural colors
Outside of school when they wear regular clothes, they were more distinguishable, based on their fashion style
also how they talked
Some of these smart and rich popular kids were snobby
and they wouldn't talk to us who were not popular
But not all of them were like that
You mentioned uniforms...
Here in the US, in public schools we do not wear uniforms
so one way to distinguish the popular kids was through their clothes
Here in the US, the private/Catholic schools do require the students to wear uniforms
Extra-curricular activities ouside of class
I personally had a lot of extra-curricular activities after school
like Tae Kwon Do, Tennis class, Mandarin class, and also traditional Indonesian dance class
But that was just me, so it was all private lessons (except the Tae Kwon Do)
My friends who were nerds too...
I think after school they did their homework and studied?
So those private classes, were they outside of school activities?
Yes, they were outside of school activities, so we paid directly to the private lessons' teachers
For example, my Mandarin teacher was my friend's mom, so someone outside the school- she was Chinese
And then my Indonesian dance teacher was actually Indonesian from Indonesia
and we paid directly to them, not through the school
so all those lessons were not through the high school
Of course besides those I also studied and did my school homework
but not as much as my fellow nerds...
Me, I don't think I was a nerd....
But I had to do lab work (practical study) 3 times a week
For extra-curricular activities, I had some, but they were part of my schedule at school
So if we had activities outside of....outside our school schedule,
the activities would be assigned by the teacher or the headmaster
Here, the students who were school athletes
they do have practice, like the football players, the swimmers, etc...
but the practice is not included in the school schedule...
So for example, classes ended at 4pm,
after that they go to practice
so it's really outside of class schedule
class schedule is really just for classes...
So actually in the regular high schools, they do have extra-curricular activities outside of the class schedule
so after class, the students can practice basketball, volleyball, etc
I did that in junior high too...
So after class, I went to practice badminton and choir
Legal Driving Age
Here in the US,
Normally high school students can drive when they're 16 years old or older
There is usually a driver's ed class
Usually when you're 15 years old you can take that class
From the Driver's Ed class, you get a permit, which is something you get before getting a driver's license
WIth a permit, you can drive a car, but you have to have an adult above 21 years old next to you
You can't drive by yourself
When you've had some hours driving with the permit,
...so it's like driving practice...
When you've had x number of hours driving with the permit,
only then you can apply/test for a Driver's License
Once you've gotten your Driver's License, then you can drive on your own
You won't need an adult next to you anymore
Usually the high school kids here don't have their own cars yet
Unless their parents get them a car as a birthday present or something...
What about in Indonesia? Is there an age limit for driving and to get a Driver's License?
Or is there Driver's Ed in school?
We don't have Driver's Ed in school...
maybe outside of school
so you can take a driver's ed outside of school
Regarding the age limit for driving, usually those who already had a motorcycle, they could drive a motorcycle in high school
or even junior high, last year of junior high, they can already drive a motorcycle
But
actually
We can get a driver's license at age 18
so ideally high school age
And then, regarding owning a car,
the car they use is usually not their own car
but it's their parents' car that they borrow
Part-Time Job in High School
In Indonesia, because in high school I majored in Hotel Management,
and because I went to a specialized school,
The school prepared me for full-time work in this field
so during school breaks, for a month, two months or three months
so during this break, we went to practical training
So we basically applied for a job at restaurants or hotels to work there
so it was like a part-time job
yeah, like part-time job
Many High school students in the US actually do take part-time jobs while they are still in school
So through those part-time jobs, many high school students here are already learning how to be financially independent
But I didn't do that...I didn't have a part-time job in high school..my parents didn't let me
But if your parents allowed you to have a part-time job in high school, would you have done it?
If my parents let me, and I had the time, yes, I would've done a part-time job
But the issue was I wouldn't have had the time anyway since I had a lot of extracurricular activities
So I had no time...
Ok, so this is part 2, we still have one more part about high schools in the US vs. in Indonesia
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See you in the next video! Bye!
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