Matt: Tantric sex. This will set you apart from every man on the planet and make women
remember you for the rest of their lives. The term alone can invoke images of
sizzling marathon sex sessions and mystical mind-blowing orgasms - but what
the hell is it exactly? My name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man, and this
is five Tantric sex tips for men.
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Matt: Before I get started make sure to
subscribe to this channel because I want to make sure that you see all of my
latest videos. Go ahead and subscribe right now. Tantric sex is an ancient
Hindu practice that's been going on for over 5,000 years and means the weaving
and expansion of energy. It's a slow form of sex that's said to increase intimacy
and create a mind-body connection that can lead to powerful orgasms. And if
you can give a woman the best orgasm of her life, then she'll probably come back
for more. Think of it as intimate clothing
optional yoga with your partner. Its purpose is enlightenment and the
philosophy transcends the bedroom into all aspects of life. In the Tantric view,
sex and orgasm equals spiritual awareness at its peak, and when male
energy and female energy join in one sexual union, it's believed to be the
highest point of enlightenment. Despite all the talk about too good for words
orgasm, that's actually not the goal of Tantra. Instead it's more about being in
the moment, and riding that wave of sensation and arousal. Yours and your
partner's. If you only focus on getting that one massive "O" at the end then you
might miss out on other orgasmic joys happening in your body along the way.
But yes, you definitely can have extended full-body orgasms through Tantric sex. A
little bit more about that in just a second. Here are five simple steps on how
to incorporate elements of Tantric sex into your own bedroom: Number one is eye
contact. It may sound obvious but deep eye contact with your partner can make your
sexual experiences a lot more intense. Find a comfortable place to sit so you
and your partner can look directly in each other's eyes. Start with your eyes
closed and take a moment to center yourself. When each of you are ready open
your eyes and gaze into your partner's eyes, allow her to really see you as you
in turn witness her. For added effect, have your partner straddle you in the
"Yab Yum" position for even deeper intimacy.
You can even synchronize your breaths to inhale and exhale in unison. Be careful
with this last move though, as it's deeply powerful and will make her feel
strong feelings for you. Best to save it for a really special girl.
Number two is: Breathing and awareness. To truly enrich your Tantric experience, the
key is to be fully in the moment. If you're thinking about work, or getting
some Chipotle later, then your touch will feel shallow and your partner will feel
this. Breathe deeply and slowly from your diaphragm, focusing on touching your
partner with your full and undivided consciousness. Number three: Explore your
senses. Tantra isn't just used to enhance the
physicality of sex, it's about the emotional and sensory experience as well.
This means taste, touch, sight, smell, and sound. It's long been known that when we
lose one of our senses our other senses are heightened.
Like when blind people develop a more acute sense of hearing. To take advantage
of this, create a relaxing, intimate, and sensual experience for your partner by
blindfolding her and offering her a variety of non visual stimulation. Try
essential oils, cinnamon or vanilla for smell, play some soft music that you know
she loves, or feed her juicy strawberries or chocolate. For touch, try caressing her
body with bits of silk feathers or a rose petal. It might sound a little
woowoo or lengthy, but trust me she'll melt right in front of you and make the
sex that much better. Number four: The "Yab Yum." As I mentioned before, one of the key
ingredients to soul-searching with your partner is looking directly into her
eyes. The "Yab Yum" position is particularly good for this purpose. Sit
cross-legged and have her climb your lap and sit with her legs around your waist,
the intimacy of bare skin hugging bare skin leads to finding the deeper
connection that you two have. Start slow and thrust gently but also work on
building up pace. Have patience young grasshopper, and a prolonged orgasm will
reward your efforts. Number five: Full-body orgasms. Imagine feeling an
orgasm not just in your genitals but all over your body for an extended period of
time. Sounds too good to be true? Not in Tantra
it isn't! One way to learn how to have full-body orgasms is to practice
reaching the point just before orgasm, then letting it fade a bit. Now build it
up again and use your breath and the power of intention to spread the energy
through your body. Protip: Clench your P.C. muscle. The muscle
you use when you stop yourself from urinating and consciously drop your
sexual energy to the top of your head stopping just before the point of orgasm.
This will allow you to keep making love while spreading that energy throughout
your entire body. This is a more advanced technique that requires some
self-restraint and practice. But when you do finally orgasm you should feel
ripples of it in different parts of your body. Tantric sex is a five
thousand-year-old study, so this is just a small fraction of what it has to offer.
But with these simple steps, you can elevate your sexual life to one that has
her crave your Yab Yum day after day. Happy straddling! Now, before she'll sleep
with you she has to be turned on. That's why I created a free Escalation Cheat
Sheet that lists some of the best ways to create sexual tension, turn her on, and
escalate to the bedroom. It's filled with advanced escalation techniques that will
turn a platonic, friendly vibe into a more sexual, "I want to rip your clothes
off" vibe. This is very useful when you're talking to girls and it's going nowhere.
Click the image in the bottom right of the screen right now to download your
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because you'll want to keep it handy before you go out. And if you're not
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you in field, make sure to check out our bootcamp schedule. My name is Matt
Artisan from The Attractive Man, and I'll see you in the next video.
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