Matt: If you make a sexual comment at the wrong time, you might get slapped. But in
context at the right moment, turning the conversation sexual can get her to start
thinking about sex, get her in the mood, and show her that you are a sexual guy
comfortable in his sexuality therefore making her a little bit more inclined to
have some fun with you sooner rather than later. So you need to know how to
turn things sexual! But how do you talk about sex and sexual topics without
seeming creepy? "Do you like sex?" My name is Matt Artisan from The
Attractive Man, and this is 7 ways to turn the conversation sexual.
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A lot of guys lose the girl
because they don't know how to go from a normal getting to know each other kind
of vibe, to a more sexual "I want to rip your clothes off" interaction. And the
girl could lose interest at some point if you don't know how to turn things
sexual because she usually won't do it for you. Laura: "Yes, you can take me back to your
place now." Matt: And if she does turn the conversation sexual before you do, it's
probably because she's just tired of waiting for you to man up and, you know,
talk about something a little bit more interesting than your grandma's birthday
and, you know, walking your cat. So here are my seven ways to turn the
conversation sexual. Make sure to watch the whole video because number one is by
far my favorite! Number seven is Direct. Which is basically just telling her
exactly what you want to do to her right now or in the near future "You know if
there weren't all these people here I would definitely throw you up against
that wall and have my way with you." or you might say "You know I have way too
many naughty thoughts running through my head right now." Direct sexual escalation
usually happens a little bit later in the interaction, either kind of, you know,
near the point where you're about to kiss her or maybe after you've already
kissed her. As a side note it's great to accuse her of turning you on like it's
her fault that you're sexually escalating on her basically just blame
her for your sexual advances such as "Stop being so cute okay? Or I'm gonna
be forced to kiss you." or maybe you say "If you look at me like that again
I'm gonna be forced to kiss you." and then of course actually kiss her. "There you
did it again!" Number six is Indirect. Basically just
telling her something that somebody else said or did. She can't really get mad at
you or, you know, think you're like, way too sexual too fast because it's not
your experience, it's somebody else's. "So my friend went to a swingers party last
night, like a sex party. Would you ever do anything like that?" or maybe it's a movie,
it's like a scene out of a movie, or maybe it's something you heard on the
radio... The radio? Who listens to the radio these days?! "So I was listening to Howard
Stern the other day, he was interviewing all these women from
like 18 all the way to 65, asking them given the right person they're in the
right situation would you basically hook up with that guy and sleep with that guy
within five minutes of meeting them?" By the way, make sure to subscribe to this
channel if you're not already subscribed, and click on that Bell notification icon
because it'll let you know every time we come out with a new video. Number five
sexual innuendos. This is a form of indirectness that takes something
seemingly innocent and gives it a sexual double meaning. Austin: "You might be a cunning
linguist but I'm a master-debater..." Matt: but it needs to be under the radar. For example,
she says she's baking a cake, don't tell her that you want to eat cake off her
naked body... that's not a sexual innuendo, that's just really sexual and really
direct, or maybe you say something like "Then I guess if I'm lucky, I'll get to
have my cake and eat it too." Number four is Role Plays. Role plays are
great, because you can kind of get away with anything you know you can be really
sexual, because it's not real it's a fantasy. My favorite role plays are
boyfriend girlfriend role plays, or over-the-top romance, like you're you
know overly chivalrous, or breaking up with her is a good one, you know, kind of
being a dick and break up with her, and have sex with her sister. Cops and
robbers, you know, robbing a bank. She's your bodyguard... my personal
favorite is marriage role play. When two people get married they kiss so you can
find your friend in the bar... your wing-man, and pretend that he's an ordained
minister and have him marry the girl that you just approached, and it's like
this fake fantasy wedding, yay! It's really fun though, but girls love that
and it plays into their whole fantasy of getting married, plus then you got to
consummate the wedding. "Okay we're so getting married, but listen, only sex
eight times a day no more than that. I'm not a piece of meat. I mean I'm the
trophy husband and all but you got to be good." Number three is Sexual Questions.
These can be anything, like what's your favorite position? Where's the craziest
place you've ever had sex? Have you ever had a one-night stand or would you ever
have a one-night stand... like tonight? What's your biggest turn-on? Do you like
your hair pulled or your ass smacked? etc... "When was the last time you
had sex?" Right you can get pretty graphic and pretty intense in this but it has to
be in context! If it's out of context it's gonna be really weird. If she's
talking about her dead grandma's birthday is tomorrow, don't ask her
what's her favorite position! Just doesn't make sense. The best way to do it
especially if you're on a date, is using the question game. Now I'm not gonna
explain how to do that here, but it's freaking awesome. You should be using this
on every single date you go on because it's great. You get to know the girl
real quickly, build a lot of rapport, and turn things sexual very quickly and
I have a whole video on it about basically how to not run out of things
to say on a date using the question game, and there's a link down in the
description and hopefully there's a link on the screen somewhere and you can
click that. Check out that video. Number two, Games. Just like role plays, they're
not real, so you can get away with a lot more, you know, she's not gonna get mad if
you say something sexual if it's part of the game, like it fits in the context of
the game. My favorite games are shag, marry, kill. "I'm gonna pick three guys, one
of them you have to f***, one of them you have to marry, one of them you have to
kill." Two truths and a lie, "I'm gonna tell you two things that are true, and one
that's a lie. And you have to guess the lie. My band toured with Linkin Park, I
lost my virginity when I was 22, and I'm an international dating coach." The
question game, "So we're gonna ask each other questions back and forth and you
have to tell the truth, and there's three rules, rule number one is the questions
have to be good, rule number two is no repeat questions, and rule number three
is you go first." Truth or dare, which of course has to be
played with more than two people, it needs to be a group of people. Two people is
just kind of lame. "Hey I dare you to kiss me!" Or my personal favorite, bumps and
grinds. Which is a classic 70's board game that involves stripping and taking shots,
and again it's best play that in a group. And finally number one, Role Reversals.
the common stereotype is that men are more sexual and they're the
exceptionally aggressive one in the relationship and
passive, you know, they don't usually sexually escalate... at least not as much.
So you just switch the roles and accuse her of being the overly sexual one or
the sexually aggressive one, and women love this because it's a really fun way
to flirt and I think deep down women are really sexual and they kind of wanna
make the move sometimes, so this you know society kind of tells them not to, not to
be that because it's slutty... so this gives them context and permission where,
you know, it's okay to do that. "Did you just look down at my package? Eyes up
here young lady!" "Stop undressing me with your eyes - you're so bad!" "You just want me
for my body huh? You're so bad... I'm not going home with you that easily." When you
start turning the conversation more sexual, I want you to start noticing how
women are reacting and you'll probably notice that women love talking about
sexual things, it might surprise you. And you'll probably also notice that when
you start turning the conversation sexual more often or quicker that things
escalate a whole lot faster. Now if you want to learn how to turn things sexual
even better, even faster, and, you know, it's a whole new level? There's an even
better method in the next YouTube video where are one of our top instructors
Josiah teaches you a method that he uses on pretty much all of his dates to take
things to a whole new sexual level, and get her thinking that he's like this
sexual superstar. If you do this method that he's about to show you, it's like
almost guaranteed that things are gonna.... you know, escalate. So check out that
YouTube video right now, there's a link down in the description, and there's also
a link to the right of this screen. And make sure to subscribe to this channel
for more tips on how to meet and date beautiful women, and if you want live
training on how to approach women then make sure to check out our boot camp
schedule, or get a free consultation. My name's Matt Artisan from The Attractive
Man, and i'll see you in the next video.
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