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going on guys Patrick here bringing you a brand new video today we've got

another killer video for you guys full of information today we're gonna be

talking about crypto currency trading BOTS as well as ripple in talks with the

Trump administration we're gonna be covering all that as well as tons of

other news that went on in the cryptocurrency space guys before we get

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the wave all the way to the top hit three of our targets over a 10% return

in the span of a few hours so super happy with the results a lot of people

who got in on that we're very happy as well and 0x ZRX one of my favorite

crypto currencies I've been talking about for the longest time is up again

of 28% where I'll be talking about them more in a bit I've talked about them the

group I've talked about that on consultation calls I talked about that

on video constantly so I'm super happy for those

of you guys who have been with a channel for a long period of time that you guys

have been able to benefit from this as well now let's get started talking a

little bit about trading bots I'm not going to go too much into this but this

is a question I get all the time if you guys are interested in the trading bots

that I am using right now it is called crypto hopper it is going to be the

second link in the description and the second link in the comment section as

well they do offer a free one-month trial of the bunny so that is this one

right here obviously the smaller package valued at $19 a month so it's a free

month for you right there to test it out and I wanted to ask you guys if you guys

are interested in trading bots if my viewers are interested in trading bots I

will go ahead and make a trading bot a free training a free trading bot

training video that's a long that's a hard sentence to say and upload it for

you guys specifically so you can see my strategy that I'm using and how I'm

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proof is right here take a look at that we have had just constant days of over 1

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are lower but profit is profit it runs by itself in the background so if you

guys are interested in that all I need to know is for you guys to give a thumbs

up on the video and let me know in the comments if you guys are interested in

trading BOTS and if you want to see me make a free trading bot training video

for you guys to go over the strategy to go over everything and again there is a

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that now if you are interested using the link in the description of course I

would greatly appreciate it and then I will make the training video and that

will come out and help you all profit more now into some other news back tired

coin basis Adam white so the CEO says that cryptocurrency revolution is in

coming and I know you guys love hearing and we always love starting the video

with some positive news keeping everyone excited we actually have had a pretty

decent last few days of cryptocurrency there have been a lot of bullish signs

everything is looking pretty good now we're not gonna jump the gun we're not

gonna get ahead of ourselves and say we're in a bull run I talked about that

yesterday I'm gonna need more confirmation

after the long period of time we've been in the bear market and how strong that

resistance on the wedge was I'm going to need more than just a few hours of

breaking through to actually be confident that this is a full

breakthrough and not just a fake fake breakout which we're gonna correct back

down to anyways because there is still the possibility elbows dropping lower

want to keep everyone realistic want to keep you guys transparent to be

transparent with you guys on what I'm looking at and I'm not sold a hundred

percent on the bullish idea yet this could be the start of the bull market

don't get me wrong but I don't want to start hyping it up with people then

expecting the bull run to come in a few days and that not happening because it

might not be the case but in the next year the next two years in the future

cryptocurrency well things are looking better than ever guys like I said the

CEO of back says that cryptocurrency revolution is in coming and I know a lot

of you guys are on the same boat and you guys agree with that and it's always

great to hear somebody in a higher position say it the same thing I know a

lot of the times we get a lot of predictions and the ones that get

traction are people in high up positions and the reason for that is these guys

have been through a lot of these guys have been through stuff in the financial

market most of time and also now the cryptocurrency market they've been in

for a while they've experienced more than we've experienced and they have

access to more information than we do because of course the CEO of fact is

going to have more information than either than either me or you guys have

as well as gonna add I have access to a lot more and therefore it gives us a

little more confident it gives us a little bit more confidence in the sense

that you know things are looking really good for cryptocurrency like I said

recently we've had a lot of bullish news things are getting we're getting closer

and closer to certain dates that are key that I think a lot of people are

expecting that could be potential catalyst to the bull run so again very

good signs and you know the fact that backed hired one of coin bases

ex-employees so coin basis atom wipe things are looking pretty good here if

you want more news more bullish news I guess so the billionaire Mike Novogratz

who originally said Bitcoin was going to be at 10k by the end of the year and

then switched his mind or change his mind and said know what it's not looking

that good I don't think we're gonna break 10k by the end of the year but in

2019 things are going to be real good well we talked about fidelity

coming into cryptocurrency the seven point two trillion dollar in assets of

the fourth-largest asset manager in the world apparently Mike novigrad says

crypto fund is the first custodian client of fidelity so again we've

announced the news yesterday about fidelity instantly starting to get some

traction from a billionaires crypto fund so things are looking pretty good again

for cryptocurrency I'm excited to see everything that's gonna continue to come

out as we continue to grow a lot of things are a lot of things are happening

that I don't think people are necessarily picking up on and that's

what I'm here for to share with you guys all the news all the information that's

going on now if you take a look at the overall market again we had a Finnick

completed our Bart roughly two to three days ago that's why the seven day at

price this seven day price graph looks like this trading sideways come up then

we came out finish the Bart from the job over here the Bart Simpson obviously

what I'm referring to and then leveled off and looks like

we're trading sideways a little bit again some crypto corrects our people

has been performing very well against trading upwards trending upwards 0x

another one that's been doing very well stellar and other fantastic

cryptocurrency that has been going up as well we're at 200 200 and 11 billion

dollars at market cap with people with Bitcoin dominance at 53.8%

so we dropped just a little bit thing we're like 50 for the other day or was

it yesterday I don't remember either way very very small not much has happened in

the market biggest gainer Raven point is up 47 percent Odyssey is up 29 percent

then three of my favorite crypto currencies coming back to back to back

0x basic attention token and nano all seeing some serious games in here a one

chain as well whereas it watching as well that Verizon who I talked about

already one that we managed to successfully trade in the group if we

continue to scroll there it does seem to be a 50/50 split in terms of red and

green so it is a sideways day in the market not again the some crypto cars in

the green some in the red it looks like it's a 50/50 split and biggest losers

for the day if we continue to scroll are going to be

electroni 'm down 15% taking a beating eternal token as well down 15% our chain

bike coin not being able to recover from being delisted on Finance not looking

good there I'm curious to see how things are gonna play out for them though if

they do manage to come back from that as that is a big deal isten and see if they

get listed again we'll see what happens but XRP ripple we touched on this

briefly yesterday about the fact that ripple not XRP the token but ripple is

in talks with the Trump administration now XRP is a token that I have been

invested in from the bottom I invested in actually the first time back in early

2017 when it was worth I believe around 11 to 15 cents I want to say was 11 but

it might have been anywhere between 10 and 15 cents and needless to say made

some serious gains selling at roughly $3 on the way down again so from 11 cents

to $3 you guys do the math it's fantastic gains there and I picked up

some more at the bottom when I was telling you guys that prices just looked

insane and I could not resist picking some up so I went ahead and pick some up

with that now the company ripple obviously ripple and XR peak extra piece

of token ripple is the company they have been in talks with the Trump

administration and that touched upon this yesterday and people made some very

good points of the fact that the u.s. or the White House they are looking at the

fact that 80% of Bitcoin mining takes place in China and a majority of a

theory of mining takes place in China so they are starting to get concerned that

China does have a large market dominance in that and you know a lot of people

we've seen recent publications recent news come out that China might actually

be able to destroy Bitcoin is that the case I'm not sure do I think it's gonna

happen no do I think they can do it I don't think they can do it either but

either way a lot of that news has been circling and obviously the u.s. is a

very big country a very dominant country in terms of economics and one of the top

countries in the world in economics and development overall right

and so they're looking at this and they're thinking wait a second China

Domon Bitcoin and aetherium it's possible and

people have made this comment that they're now looking at what they can use

what what are they going to use because they're obviously they might be a little

hesitant to use something that China has dominance over so China has 80% of

Bitcoin mining and a majority of a theory of mining maybe the maybe the US

isn't interested in using Bitcoin and aetherium yet maybe that's when they are

looking at XRP where there is no mining so from a foreign control aspect or from

or from an environmental aspect XRP is very is a very different beast and in

conversations we've had with the administration they seem to get that and

think that might matter so very interesting stuff to see right here the

potential for the u.s. to go on board with ripple instead of Bitcoin and

etherium now I'm not saying this is the case this is just news that came out

about what they were discussing again very early stages we talked about this

yesterday the fact that these are these big countries the big companies these

big funds whatever is you want to call the guys on Wall Street whoever it is

you're thinking about those big that like that big money the big control

they've known this stuff for a very long time they've known about cryptocurrency

they've known about the blockchain for a very long time and they've been doing

research on it for a very long time they're very well educated on this

matter contrary to problem to popular belief they don't simply dismiss this

information never look at any be like yeah that's not gonna matter everything

has to be taken seriously so these guys know about what's going on they've

they've been looking at cryptocurrency I guarantee they've been looking at that

the US government has been looking at cryptocurrency

and the blockchain technology for a very long time definitely longer than both

you guys and I have as well I do I do strongly believe that and again gonna be

interesting to see how things play out so I wanted to ask you guys what your

thoughts are on this possible theory that I've seen a lot of people have

again this is not my theory this is just a possibility that I've seen circling

around I want to know what your guys thoughts on do you think the US would

use Bitcoin or aetherium given that a majority of the mining is done in China

or do you think they would look at something like XRP where there is no

mining so it's very different it's very different it's

a it's a very different beast to quote it directly it's a very different beast

than Bitcoin and athira so I wanna know your guys thoughts on that leave in the

comments down below let me know what you guys think I would love to see your

thoughts now for all the Tron fans out there we have some pretty good news for

Tron the price it might not reflect that as it is down 1.2 6% but the maintenance

of surpassed 500,000 growing speed remains at 100,000 per month so again

very good traction clearly the interest is there I assume that's going to go up

once we do enter the bull run as more money's gonna come in and just overall

more hypes gonna happen in cryptocurrency we know that coinbase

accounts they were setting record amounts of accounts I forget what the

exact number was but record amounts back in that back at the end of 2017 in

December 2017 record amount and now obviously that is lower than it used to

be which makes sense as less people are looking to buy in there's less hype less

people are just throwing their money into it so I do expect this to go up as

well but it is good to see the maintenance of the main that traction

that Tron is having a lot of people used to dislike Tron but are starting to grow

are that they're starting to have a soft spot for they're starting to realize

that hey there might be potential in here a lot of people still just dislike

it in majority of the reason I'm gonna say a lot of the reason people dislike

Tron is Justin son he's either you love him or you hate him type guy because he

does marketing in a certain way that some people agree with some people

disagree with some people like some people don't like but overall about the

main that this is good news and 0x like I was talking about before added to

coinbase Pro if you guys go onto coinbase

Pro right here I just went on the exchange I'm not signed in or anything

as you guys can see if you do click select market well here it is z RX 2

euro and z RX 2 US dollar which is and obviously you have crypto market ZRX 2

BTC so very very cool to see right here guys volume so you guys can see the 24

hour volume that's going on added recently again the reason for the price

increase that's why we're seeing this big jump now the main thing i want to

talk about here is the fact that coin has added in ERC 20 token in CR rank so

this might be opening the door for the floodgate of every other cryptocurrency

they will be and they've talked about Stowe they've talked about basic

attention so look into that I think have a strong possibility of getting on there

as well we see babies and basic attention token reacting very well I

think stellar and basic attentions are reacting very well part of that part of

the reason they might be reacting so well is because people have speculated

well they've added 0x maybe they're gonna add stellar maybe they're gonna

add ba T so I'm gonna get in on that now so that when they do add it I can

actually ride the wave that a lot of ZRX investors are riding now it might be

just one of the reasons that those crypto currencies are up either way guys

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How To Stop Making Excuses - Duration: 20:20.

- What's up guys?

I'm so pumped for this week's YouTube video for you guys.

I did a training recently for literally

our best clients in the world,

talking about how do you coach people through excuses.

So if you've got a brother, or a sister,

or a teammate, or somebody like who's always making excuses,

or you're the person who's always making excuses

about why you can't have your dream,

why people don't support you,

why you can't break through, or achieve more, or make more,

this video on this week's YouTube is gonna blow your mind.

So bust out your journal, take tons of notes,

please comment down below if you like this,

cause listen, you'll see the quality isn't as fancy as this,

I happened to be at my home on my computer

when I was broadcasting out to my best clients.

And we just happened to capture it,

and so many people loved this conversation about excuses,

I know you like, so forgive,

I know it's not the best camera.

But take notes, I think you're gonna dig it,

and comment down below if you're liking

these little excerpts that we're giving you

of some other training that I'm doing elsewhere.

If you dig it, I'll keep posting these on YouTube

just for my subscribers, cause you guys kick butt.

Enjoy this video.

Um, so, to talk with you today about some big topics

that you've been asking me about in coaching.

I know lots of you are certified high performance coaches,

and you're in this place where you're like,

okay, Brendan, I've got people who sometimes

offer a lot of friggin' excuses,

and I don't know how to get over them,

because the same excuse comes up.

Or, I don't know when it's appropriate to challenge people,

so how do you challenge people respectfully,

but still get the effect that you're after.

Some of these big topics are

what we're gonna be taking on today.

I'm trying to do it so I can have a little bit

to show you all of how I actually do my coaching sessions,

and the tools that I use today,

one of them is super simple,

it's a little excuse chart.

Hope you caught that and wrote that down on your notes.

(laughs)

So, I'll be sharing with you some things that really

seem to work well when I am doing an actual coaching session

to make sure that I get people

really enrolled in the idea that they can do more.

Really enrolled in the idea that they can make their dreams

happen, really enrolled in the idea

that whatever topic we're taking on,

and whatever session of coaching that I'm focused on,

that they really feel truly and deeply,

that they can move the needle,

that they can make a difference.

And I know that's why we're all here.

Let's jump into a simple framework I'm gonna show you,

and then we're gonna break it down for you.

And this is literally,

I've got this cause it's right over here on my desk,

that's why I'm kind of trying to shoot this angle

here for you guys today.

But I have this chart next to my computer,

and it just says Excuses at the top,

and then it's kinda like a, you know,

a three circle Venn diagram type thing.

And most excuses people make,

I'm always being conscious about

where they're making them, right?

So you've got personal excuses,

you've got social excuses,

and you've got operational excuses.

Okay, let's talk about social.

Here's the number one reason,

I shouldn't say the number one reason,

here are the big three reasons

that a lot of people don't do things,

because they're making excuses about things,

cause they're scared socially to do things.

So they make excuses because

number one- I really believe most people

are terrified of embarrassment.

They might call it something else,

but they're scared of embarrassment.

I just put this video out,

where it starts where the first line is,

you're not scared to start your dream,

you're embarrassed to be seen starting small.

And it just blew up on social media for us.

I think I got more direct messages on that one little post

than anything I've ever done.

And people really resonated with it.

Cause if you think about the truth about it is,

that's what it is for a lot of people,

they don't, if they quit their job,

and they go to start something new,

they don't want all their former, you know,

people to see them doing something that looks

a little, you know, new, and fresh,

and maybe ugly, or not put together,

they're scared to be embarrassed

and have other people judge them.

They're scared that, they might use different language,

well, you know, they might say,

well, I'm just fearful,

but if you really dig down to fearful,

most people are just scared to be embarrassed.

They're scared to try something and obviously fail at it,

and the perception of that failure

really shuts them down.

So, we have to ask different questions,

and I ask this all the time,

I literally use the word embarrassment.

I'll say something like,

are you not gonna try this,

before we even get to this, like,

you can see it, you made it happen,

are you not gonna try it because you're scared

of what somebody else might think?

Are you not going to try it

because you're scared of somebody,

of what somebody else might think?

I ask that all the time.

And almost all the time,

people go, well, you know,

I'm not scared, but, you know,

I'm worried about what my spouse will think.

Oh, I'm not scared, but, yeah, you know,

the people at work might think I'm a little crazy.

And I'll explore that with them,

because if we can't get them

over that line of embarrassment

and the willingness for trial and error,

we won't get them to do anything.

And so my way through embarrassment, for me,

is two different ways, just depending on who the person is,

when I hear that someone might be embarrassed

to do something, I'll often start with

that past attempt conversation.

Well, have you tried something like this before,

and people were horrible to you?

And they're always like, well,

no, I've never tried this before.

Oh, so you're making an assumption

that you'd feel uncomfortable.

But then I also wanna give them permission,

I'll be like, is this dream worth

having a few people think you're crazy?

Is this dream worth having a few people think you're crazy?

And I'll open up that dialog,

well yeah, okay, well, who might think you're crazy?

Well, my spouse is gonna think I'm crazy.

Cool, how are they gonna communicate that to you?

Well, they're gonna call me stupid.

Have they ever called you stupid before?

Well, no, or, yes, they have.

I say okay, so you survived it

last time they called you stupid.

Would it be worth surviving it again

if they call you stupid,

if you felt better because you actually got momentum

toward something that matters to you?

They're like, oh, yeah.

And listen, knowing that a big frame here

in people getting over excuses,

is getting them tied back to,

is what they are after important?

I brought that up earlier,

how important is this to you?

Do you really want this?

Well if you said that's important,

isn't it worth a little discomfort?

Haven't you been discomforted before?

Haven't you felt judged and stupid before?

Okay, so you know you'll survive that.

Now the question is,

so the question isn't about survival, right?

And they'll say yeah, it's not about survival.

Great, the question isn't about survival,

sounds to me like the real question

is whether you want it?

We know you'll survive,

I'm curious, what, if we know you'll survive,

what will it feel like if you're thriving?

Would it be worthwhile to have a few doubters,

or to look stupid, or to be seen as silly,

if you woke up energized by what you were doing?

Would that be worth it?

And I'll just start painting that picture for them.

Would it be worth it if you woke up

and you knew you were doing what you were meant to do?

Would it be worth it if you did,

if everyone else thought you were slowing down,

taking a step back, but you actually felt like

you were moving towards that next chapter?

Or you were moving towards that better thing?

Would that be worth it?

And, cause see, worth can be flipped on its head.

We think worth is all about someone not feeling worthy,

but I'll use worth it all the time.

Is it worth it?

Would it be worth it to have someone?

And then I'll play it out too,

if someone was really concerned about,

okay, so what are they gonna say to you

that's gonna make you feel embarrassed?

Because remember, communication,

having someone use self-talk,

or use the talk of other people,

in coaching is really powerful.

I don't wanna bring this up to my husband,

cause he's gonna get mad.

Oh, what's he gonna say?

I don't wanna bring this up to my husband,

cause he's gonna get mad.

Oh, what's he gonna say?

Well he's gonna say that, you know,

I'm just stupid and I'm wasting our money.

Oh, has he ever said that before?

And either it's yes or it's no.

If it's no, I'm gonna say, well,

don't put words in your husband's mouth,

If he's never said it before,

because isn't it true he said a lot of things

that you could not have anticipated?

Oh, yeah, okay, that's true Brendan.

Okay, if it is true, if he said it before,

I say, did you survive?

You're still here.

So if you survived it, it's not a question of survival,

now let's talk about what do you wanna thrive?

How do you wanna feel?

And I'll work through it that way.

But embarrassment, I hope you see there's a lot of different

angles into embarrassment.

I wanna know, if someone said, you know,

I can't, I could, I'd be so embarrassed to quit my job,

because people, you know,

would think I'm crazy to start this dream.

I'm like, what are they gonna say to you?

What do you mean?

Well if you're gonna be embarrassed,

obviously they're gonna say something

to make you feel embarrassed,

what do you think they're gonna say to you?

And then they start to realize the excuse is lame,

cause they can't even think of what they're gonna say.

Or they'll say, well, they're gonna say that I'm,

you know, that I'm irresponsible.

Are you irresponsible?

No.

Okay, and then would you like me to call you

other names that you're not?

Cause I feel like that wouldn't be such a big issue?

If you know it's not true, but people still say it,

does it really impact you?

And I'll work through with them like that,

because what I want to do is ask the questions

that get them to minimize the excuse themselves.

And one of the best ways to do that

is make them say the thing

that they're so scared everyone's gonna say.

Cause as soon as they verbalize it,

they see it has no power.

It's my favorite way to move people through embarrassment

or fear of others, is make them say it.

You know, well, you know,

daddy, I don't want to go to school today because,

you know, the bully is gonna pick on me.

What's he gonna do?

Well he might push me.

Has he ever pushed you before?

No.

Okay.

Or yes, he's pushed me before.

Did you survive?

Yep.

Okay, so what's gonna happen when it happens again?

And just step people through their fears,

ask them the questions,

because as soon as they think through a fear or an excuse,

they tend to see how small it is.

Or, even if it's not small,

they recognize they can handle the impact.

It's not gonna be a dinosaur situation,

it's not gonna be a, you know, crater in the Earth.

That, people, as soon as they step through

the embarrassment, or the fear, or the judgment,

they realize, A- they've heard it before,

I mean, what have you guys not heard

at this point in your life?

Right?

You're stupid, you're lazy, you're dumb,

you're not good enough, I hate your hair,

your blouse sucks, jeez, those pants don't fit you well,

hate your shoes, your house is too small,

your garden sucks, I mean, what do you need?

Like, once you realize it's all been said,

there's just no fear about it anymore.

There's, I don't think there's anything they could

say on the internet about me

that could ever slow me down,

because I'm like, either they've already said it to me,

or I've said it to myself.

And once you realize it's all been said, you're safe.

What else are they gonna say to you?

Right?

Are you so scared that really something's gonna come along

tomorrow and they're gonna say something so bad

it's gonna embarrass you so much more

than you've already been embarrassed?

Look, as adults, we're carrying along

enough old embarrassments, enough old shame,

nothing new is gonna come tomorrow.

And once you get that, it takes away a lot of that power.

It takes away a lot of that power.

What are they gonna say when I get on stage?

I'm not a good dancer?

Heard it. (laughs)

It's nothing new to me,

it's like, once you've heard it,

you're like, I'm good,

I can go out there and completely dork out on stage

with zero holding back,

because what else are they gonna say?

I've already heard it before.

I've done, I mean, I've had it all said before.

Brendan, your fly is down.

Okay, that happened.

What else am I, it's just gonna happen,

I'm okay with it, it's not a problem.

So don't worry about being embarrassed.

And I gotta get our client,

you have to get your clients to that place,

and the best place is, step it through,

have them see it, have them say it,

and once they've said it and communicated it,

the power is gone.

On the social sphere, another huge support,

and people don't see this one as often as they should,

I believe, a lot of coaches miss this one all the time,

and that is, people fear not meeting their responsibilities.

Well, I have that dream,

but I can't do it because of the kids.

The fear there isn't they've tried in the past,

the fear there isn't bandwidth,

the fear there isn't worth or permission,

the fear isn't embarrassment,

the fear there isn't even the support,

they don't care if the kids support them or not,

the fear there is, I can't do that and

meet my obligations of being a good mom.

That's a failure,

it's a fear of a failure to meet their responsibility,

and it's a very powerful thing.

And I think coaches miss this all the time,

they really, I mean,

talk about the, a huge miss of the limiting belief camp,

I don't even think they were ever educated on this.

And that is, that people,

that's a very positive excuse.

It's a very good thing, it's not a limiting belief,

it's a motivating, and a powerful,

and a beautiful belief.

I don't wanna do that,

because that would be irresponsible to my family.

That'd be irresponsible to our family,

to our finances, I would fail to meet the responsibility

of my team.

If I did that,

I would risk my team's ability to pay their mortgages.

If I did that, I'd risk the ability for us to

have the lifestyle we have.

I, that, you know, I promised these people these things,

and if I do that, I'd have to break those promises.

I don't wanna fail to meet my responsibilities there.

That's a great thing, there's no limiting belief in that,

that's human virtue coming out.

That, people will grab that human virtue and make it a vice.

I'm like not, that's a wonderful thing.

That's a wonderful thing.

So the question is more often,

okay, let's ask, let me ask two questions.

One- are you meeting those responsibilities well now?

Tell me about that.

You're worried about not being a good mom in the future,

are you being a good mom now?

Well I wouldn't be a good husband if I did this.

Okay, are you being a good husband now?

And I'll explore whatever that responsibility is

they feel they need to meet,

that's a great entrance point,

just talking about that.

And inevitably, you'll find that people find more ways

to do better at their responsibility.

You know, I'd be a better mom if I did this.

Oh, I'd be a better dad if I did that.

I'm like, okay, so you're always improving

in this area, right?

Yeah.

Have you ever added more to your plate,

and still been a good dad?

Been a good mom?

Have you ever added any more to your plate,

and still remained a good person?

Yes.

Okay, so is it possible that you could pursue this dream

and still meet the most important priorities

and responsibilities of your life?

Is it possible?

No it's not.

Okay, do you have any distractions

that you deal with right now?

Yes.

Do you ever prioritize really horribly?

Yes.

Do you ever make any decisions in the week

where you're like, oh my god, why did I do that?

I just blew off an hour.

Yes.

Well, isn't it true then,

if you learn to prioritize better

and get rid of more distractions,

that you could still meet your responsibilities?

But if you just managed your schedule a little bit better,

you could take this on.

You could make this happen,

but you're gonna have to

not get rid of your responsibilities,

cause I love that you have that responsibility.

I admire you for that responsibility,

that's virtue, good for you for wanting to meet that.

Now, isn't it true,

you're just gonna have to get better at time management?

And it like frees it from this,

oh my god, I'm an irresponsible mom,

to, isn't it true we could just get you

prioritizing a little better each week?

And they're like, yeah.

And then we can explore that together.

You've gotta unhook that.

People get stuck, like, they are like, I can't bust this.

And what people try to do is they try to talk around it,

instead I want you to acknowledge it.

Whatever that responsibility is that they feel like

they don't wanna break,

honor that, cheer that on, talk about it explicitly,

and then point out the fact that they're probably

screwing off in some other part of their life,

and if they could minimize that,

they could still meet their responsibility,

and still create the white space necessary

to pursue their dream.

And now the excuse

that this responsibility is holding me back,

is defused by the reality

that they're not yet using their time

and prioritizing the way they could.

And what's more threatening,

what's more difficult to take on,

you could grab a couple more hours throughout the week

to do something that matters,

that's, people can take that on.

What they can't take on is any concern

of meeting that responsibility.

So I don't try to mess with the responsibility,

I honor it, I cheer it on,

I make sure that happens, I write it down in my notes,

I'm like, okay.

And you should always know,

what are the responsibilities

your clients are trying to meet.

If you don't know those,

you can get yourself really stuck

in a long, long, long cycle

of not having any breakthroughs with them.

But if you know the responsibilities they're trying to meet,

I hit those suckers like a hammer,

like a hammer.

You know, in every area of your life

that don't even seem related.

If someone tells me she's trying to be a good mom,

and we're in the energy section of CHPC,

and she's giving me excuses why she doesn't try to workout,

I say hey, you know you told me one time

that it's really important for you

to meet the responsibility of being a great mom?

Yeah.

Well, doesn't being a great mom

mean having enough energy to play with

and enjoy your time with your kids?

Yeah.

Well, how are you ever gonna have any energy

if you don't take care of your body better?

And now we're in a conversation with health,

tied to their responsibility.

And so when you know the responsibilities of your client,

I link those suckers up to all our sessions.

And I hammer those suckers in,

that is how I get such a depth of effect

in my CHPC coaching,

is I know what's really important to them,

and I'm always bringing that into each of the sessions.

The sessions don't feel like separate,

away from what's important to them,

it feels like the sessions are facilitating

what is important to them.

And I think that's the difference,

when you're first going through CHPC it's easy

just to ask the questions,

and be in the session and in the questions,

but not be in their life.

And so I'm always attentive to

what are the responsibilities they're trying to meet,

and the sessions just facilitate that.

I appreciate all of you here today,

and I can't wait to see you all soon.

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Ferrari boss Maurizio Arrivabene makes Sebastian Vettel statement ahead of US Grand Prix - Duration: 2:22.

Ferrari boss Maurizio Arrivabene makes Sebastian Vettel statement ahead of US Grand Prix Hamilton leads Vettel by 67 points with just four races of the season remaining. The Brit can win his fifth world title at the US Grand Prix this weekend but Arrivabene has not given up hope of his men pulling off an upset.

Vettel and Kimi Raikkonen are looking to finish the season strongly to restore some pride after a disastrous second half of the campaign. And even though the team has struggled since the summer break, Arrivabene insists the team spirit remains strong and he refused to point the finger of blame.     "I know that the situation looks impossible but our job sometimes is to challenge the impossible," Arrivabene told Sky F1. "This is what we're going to try to do.

"We win and we lose together." Vettel knows the odds are stacked against a miracle comeback but he is still proud of his team's efforts this year. "It's not been an easy couple of weeks but the spirit in the team, considering how tough the last weeks have been, is unbroken," said Vettel.     "I know how difficult it is considering where we are but what do we have to lose? We will give it everything we can.

"If the races go like this it's a bit of a handover, but I think we are trying our best to fight and resist." Vettel has not won a world title since moving to Ferrari from Red Bull. But Arrivabene is confident the German will end his drought in the coming years.   "It takes talent and determination otherwise you do not go anywhere," Arrivabene added. "Michael Schumacher was like that and Sebastian Vettel is a lot like him as his four World titles won with Red Bull testifying to. "When I hear him on the radio it's like talking to Michael. "I am sure that sooner or later he will bring the title back to Maranello.".

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