5 Signs Your Ex Was a Complete Narcissist
No one knows that you are actually dating a narcissists.
And more, you also may not know that you have dated narcissists in your life.
If you live in USA, chances are you at least have dated a narcissist throughout your love
journey.
Indeed, there are so many narcissists nowadays.
Moreover, they come in various forms to keep you under their control.
Rewinding back the time, you should have learnt that your ex was narcissist by these signs.
#1 - Narcissists love being liked instead of liking
Well, that is the rule of narcissist.
There is no equal affection or love between the two.
They don't really like you, but you must like your partner.
Otherwise, there will be debates, physical abuse, and hatred transmitted each other.
Moreover, you will also experience the confusion phase since narcissists are really good at
manipulating people especially those with weaker self-esteem.
It is extremely difficult to make them realize that they should love others.
It is even useless because they only love themselves.
#2 - Stringing you along
They want to have control over you.
They put long lashes on you that you don't recognize it.
Once you go too far, they will slowly pull you back in because you are still worthy to
them.
Though you are basically useless, you are practically useful for feeding their needs
for power and appreciation.
Narcissists demand energy from people around them.
This energy is absorbed by throwing negativity to others.
Narcissists love to absorb desperation as the effects of their appreciation.
It is fun for them to make themselves famous or valued while making others suffer.
#3 - Making excuse
It is okay to be irresponsible once in a while.
However, narcissists will always do that for the sake of themselves.
They don't want to help you in any way because they prefer seeing you suffer.
That is why they love canceling plans.
They like to put you in trouble.
They also like to break promises.
They really want to put you in a miserable condition and blame you afterward.
They do that for convincing you more that you are worthless.
Unfortunately, some people really believe on the words narcissists have said.
That makes the narcissists even happier, and they can live long with that appreciation
while killing the others.
#4 - Drama queen and king
Narcissists definitely do not have anything else but their false reality.
They want to live in their drama as long as they can.
That is why they play this role at its fullest.
Throughout the drama, you will always be the character that must suffer while they will
perform as the main character.
You definitely need to do what is asked, and you cannot fight back.
#5 - You'll never know where to stand You have no exact position in a relationship.
It seems like you are nothing in your relationship, but you stuck in it.
Your relationship with narcissist actually did not exist, and it was just a trick to
use you.
Well, at least that's some signs that shows your ex was a complete narcissist.
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