Matt: Sure he's rich and he's famous. He's got a lot of followers and haters alike and
as you might know he gets a lot. I mean a whole lot of women and he doesn't have
to work for them. Which makes you wonder is there a way for ordinary guys to get
girls effortlessly like dan Bilzerian without the money? My name is Matt
Artisan from The Attractive Man and I'll reveal how in this video.
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Matt: Dan Bilzerian has ninety-seven, possibly more,
guns in his house. He claims he's preparing for the zombie apocalypse! He's
got millions of dollars in his account, he has over 22 million Instagram
followers. I'm not exaggerating here - just check out his Instagram. Now you might
think he's a douche or you might not agree with his values but we're not here
to judge. The fact is he's a master at getting girls effortlessly. He doesn't
have to work for them. And in this video, I'll break down what he's doing and how
you can do the same. Pay special attention to the last technique, because
it can completely change your dating life; it's a total game changer. Now let's
break this down. Number one - he possesses all the
attractive traits of a "Bad boy". The fact is that just because a guy is
good-looking and has money doesn't mean that he'll effortlessly get girls. I know
this because I've personally coached guys that have had money, good looks, and
fame. In fact, one guy was a famous rapper. The first bad boy trait that he has is
he's a very masculine. He has huge muscles, he fights, he shoots guns, he
drives off-road vehicles and he has a beard fit for a king. His whole being-ness
oozes with masculinity, and women love that. You see in general, men are
attracted to very feminine women, and women are attracted to very masculine
men. So start to really bring out that masculine man inside of you. The second
bad boy trait that he has is - he flat-out does what he wants.
Dan: It's not about the cars or the money, it's about being able to do whatever you want to do.
Steve: Really living life to the fullest and putting it on his Instagram
people love to see that. Like he told me it's all about freedom.
Matt: He lives an exciting life and people naturally want to be a part of that and women love a
man that unapologetically does what he wants. Dan: I mean, usually girls that know me
have a pretty high opinion of me. Just because I'm always honest, you know, I'm not
like a lot of the other guys that's on the dream that tell them I love them,
that tell them they're gonna be monogamous, and, you know, promise them all
this stuff. I just - you know, just keep it real. Matt: You see, the reason women don't like
nice guys is because nice guys don't do what they want, they do what they think
SHE wants them to do. That's the difference.
Nice guys are always trying to please women. They're not being truly authentic
to who they are. This makes her distrust him and makes her feel unsafe because
he's not being honest. Let me repeat that women like bad boys because they're
usually being real with who they are; they're not seeking approval. So don't
hold back when you move and speak, do what you want.
Pretending won't get you the girl. The third bad boy trait that he has is that
his demeanor is very grounded and relaxed. Like he can handle anything that
comes his way. Being grounded is important because it makes women feel
safe. If you've been following me for a while, then you know that the most
important influencer in a woman's life is how safe she feels. By the way, before
I forget, if you're not already subscribed to this channel hit that
subscribe button right now. Now before we get into the game-changing technique,
let's break down some of the science of what he's doing. Because he consistently
applies two psychological principles that make women naturally attracted to him.
The first attraction trigger that he applies is "Status". The Journal of
psychology and human sexuality found that women prefer men that are high
status. No surprise there. It's because a high status man typically has resources
that can provide her and her offspring a good life. With over 22 million Instagram
followers he's pretty high status. Plus he frequently hangs out with other
famous people, like Steve Aoki. That further enhances his status. Now of
course one way to become high status is to become famous yourself. You can always
hire a marketing team that will help you get more followers on social media, which
actually isn't a bad idea. However, there's an easier way that I'll explain
in just a bit. The second attraction trigger is called "Preselection"
Preselection is a principle that means if women see that other women
like you, then they'll like you too. Basically you've been pre-screened. Dan
applies this to the max by posting lots and lots of pictures of half-naked women
on his Instagram. It creates a sense that he has lots of women fighting for him
and when other women see that some of them naturally want to sleep with him
and make him theirs. The simplest way to do this is start going out with girls or
groups of girls and post pictures of you with girls. And now, I want to talk about
the real genius behind dan Bilzerian. Here's the deal man,
most guys make meeting women much more difficult than it actually has to be.
Most guys look for girls at bars in clubs, or online dating sites or apps
like tinder. What's the problem with that, you say? There's so much competition, and
women have the upper hand. At bars, women are constantly getting hit on so she can
be picky about who she goes home with. On apps like Tinder, OkCupid, or Match, she's
constantly getting bombarded by guys messaging her. I know a girl that after
signing up for Match, she got seven hundred and thirty nine
messages from guys in under two months! Seven hundred and thirty nine! She could
literally go on a date every day for the next two years without seeing the same
guy twice. Now I'm not saying you should stop going to bars and clubs or
completely stop using online dating, but there's a much easier way to meet hot
and high-quality women. So what does Dan Bilzerian do? He sets up his life so that
he doesn't have to put in much work to meet girls. Dan: I kind of like figured out
that life is more about setup - you know? And if I wanted to like set it up so
that I could get laid without like, having a bunch of conversations and
dates and whatnot. So when I have these pool parties that have like thirty of my
friends and.. Larry: Male and female? Dan: No, 30 my guy friends and then like, two to three
hundred girls. Larry: How'd all those girls get to go there? Dan: You know, promoters, girls
you know, girls invite girlfriends. Matt: Similar to what he does with poker, he
makes use of numbers and psychology to make everything work in his favor. You
see, instead of going to bars and clubs where the men typically outnumber the
women and are all competing against each other. He throws his own party where the
man to woman ratio is greater than ten to one. And in a situation where there
are more women than men, the women will instinctively have an
urge to win over the men. Since there's a scarce number of guys every guy there
will see more attractive and valuable, and that's when the women naturally
start fighting over the guys. Imagine hot women fighting over you.
Pretty awesome. Now here are two questions you need to ask yourself to
set up your life to get the girls that you want. First, get very clear on what
type of girl you're looking for. What age range, what values does she have? What are
her hobbies? Is she a party girl, does she play sports? Is she in college?
etc. Second ,where do these types of girls hang out? Is it at bars and clubs? Yoga,
gym? Happy hour, seminars, dance class, cooking class? etc. Now that you know what
kind of girl you want and you know where they hang out, let's set up your life so
that you attract them naturally and effortlessly. For example, my business
partner, he likes girls that are active, healthy, and into well-being.
Therefore he goes to a lot of yoga events because the women there tend to
share similar values. Plus women typically outnumber men in yoga classes.
And to take it to the next level he could become a yoga instructor, or hold
some sort of leadership position in the yoga world. Then women would look up to
him because he's the leader. They'd be more attracted to him. Another example is
I like Asian women, so I bought a condo in the Philippines. Asian girls typically
like white guys, so I live like a king while I'm here and I can be pretty picky
about which girl I want. Another way is to use social circle game like Dan.
It's simple, instead of forcing women into your social circle, use your
existing social circle to draw women in. All you have to do is start hosting
parties. Have your friends invite girls, and have those girls invite their
girlfriends. If you do this consistently, then you'll become the go-to guy that
everybody knows, and your parties will just keep getting bigger and bigger.
*Obligatory Crazy Dance Party Music*
Matt: Plus you'll probably start getting invited to more parties yourself. But the
beauty about hosting your own parties is that you're usually the highest status
person there. Now with everything in life, you want to play to your strengths, so if
you're a social extroverted guy then start hosting parties regularly like Dan
does. But if you aren't the party type or maybe you're a little bit more
introverted, then let me share what I do when I go to a new city. Again, it's all
about the setup. I find a place to stay in the part of town that has the most
amount of beautiful women, that way I'll naturally run into them
when I'm going to a restaurant, or walking down the street, or heading to
the gym. And if you follow my system for meeting girls, then you already know how
to chat with a girl and get an instant date in less than three minutes. I don't
focus a lot of my energy on meeting girls at bars and clubs or online dating.
I really don't go out of my way much to meet women. I just simply meet the women
that I run into on my daily life. And when you go up to a hot girl walking
down the street, she's usually a lot more receptive than if you met that same girl
out at a nightclub. And of course, not all girls that I meet during the daytime
become lovers so the ones that don't I put them in my social circle, and I'll
invite them to a party that I'm throwing or even out to a club. So there you have
it, man. How to meet girls without putting in tons of work. And if you want to know
exactly what to say to women to make them want you, then make sure to download
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